When Vanilla life is like kink

So... reflections on how pt is like a scene.... stage 1 pain hurts...much like a bad behavior stage 2 pain more pain is needed to heal.... much like a spanking... stage 3 there gets to be a time when pain goes past the too much mark... ie subspace is a wonderful  thing.... lovely lovely endorphins  stage 4 after endorphins go away pain comes back 4 fold..... :( (nipple clamps ring a bell....)